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Cover of Monicka's Papa Is Tall.

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Monicka's Papa Is Tall

Creator

Heather Jopling; illustrated by Allyson Demoe

Date

Published 2006

Format

Book

A Canadian Nickname Press picture book about a child with two fathers.

Canadian picture booksTwo fathersNickname PressOpposites and comparisonFamily diversity

Overview

Monicka's Papa Is Tall is a 2006 Canadian picture book by Heather Jopling, illustrated by Allyson Demoe and published by Nickname Press in Cobourg, Ontario. It belongs to a companion pair with Ryan’s Mom Is Tall, using a simple opposites structure to describe a child’s two fathers. The local catalog emphasizes that the parents differ in height, taste, eyesight, or other traits, while sharing love for their child. The public record is strongest when the two titles are read together: publisher materials, reviews, and ALA Rainbow Project listings show a small Canadian press building books for nontraditional families in direct response to a lack of ordinary child-facing representation. This item is therefore a series-member record rather than a standalone flagship.[1][3][4][5][8]

A Paired Picture-Book Form

Monicka's Papa Is Tall is most useful when read with its companion volume. The pair uses the same structure to present two related family forms: one child with two mothers and another with two fathers. That pairing makes the books more than isolated stories. They show Nickname Press developing a small, repeatable form for preschool readers, where difference between adults is made visible through concrete comparisons. The shared design also lets the collection compare two-mother and two-father representation without forcing one title to carry the whole family-diversity frame.[1][2][3][5]

Opposites And Affection

The books use opposites as a child-friendly structure. The local catalog describes parents who are tall or short, need glasses or do not, prefer different foods, and still share the same love for their child. That language makes adult difference ordinary rather than threatening. The repeated point is not that the parents are identical, but that difference within a family can coexist with care. For early readers, this is a disciplined strategy: the family is introduced through everyday observation and comparison, not through a problem that must be solved.[1][5][6]

Nickname Press Context

Nickname Press supplies the most important network context. Publisher materials describe Heather Jopling founding the press after encountering a shortage of down-to-earth books for nontraditional families, including during her experience as a surrogate for a gay family. That origin story matters because the books are not simply neutral concept books. They are small-press responses to a specific representational gap. The publisher’s first line placed Ryan, Monicka, and The Not-So-Only Child together as a modest but deliberate Canadian family-diversity project.[4][10][8]

Visual And Pedagogical Design

Publisher and review materials point to a design vocabulary suited to preschool and classroom use: simple comparison, clean family roles, and a visual puzzle-piece motif. The educational framing matters because these books were meant to be usable by families, teachers, and librarians looking for ordinary images of same-sex-parent households. The books do not offer a large narrative arc. Their value lies in compact pedagogy: a child can identify differences, name family members, and return to the shared statement of parental love.[7][6][8]

Timeline

  1. 2006Nickname Press launchNickname Press launches its first books for nontraditional families.[10][4]
  2. 2006Monicka's Papa Is Tall publishedLibrary and publisher records place Monicka's Papa Is Tall in 2006.[3][5]
  3. 2007Mombian reviewMombian reviews Ryan's Mom Is Tall and related Nickname Press titles.[8]
  4. 2007CM reviewCM reviews Ryan's Mom Is Tall and Monicka's Papa Is Tall.[7]
  5. 2008Rainbow Project selectionALA Rainbow Project includes the pair in its book list.[9]
  6. 2010sBibliography circulationLGBTQ-family bibliographies continue to list the titles.[11][12]

Nickname Press Pair

The two books are most legible as companion records.

2006

Ryan's Mom Is Tall

Two-mother companion title.

2006

Monicka's Papa Is Tall

Two-father companion title.

2006

The Not-So-Only Child

Part of the first Nickname Press family-diversity group.

Explore Connections

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Linked records

Companion volume

Ryan's Mom Is Tall

The two Nickname Press books share format, creator, illustrator, publisher, and opposites structure.

References [1][5]

Nickname Press line

The Not-So-Only Child

Publisher materials identify this title as part of the same first Nickname Press group.

References [4][5]

Canadian wedding title

Mom and Mum Are Getting Married

Both are Canadian same-sex-family picture books circulating through child and library contexts.

References [13][7]

Small-press family books

Keesha & Her Two Moms Go Swimming

Both clusters use small-press ordinary-family stories rather than broad legal or challenge narratives.

References [8]

Shared themes

Canadian picture books

Ryan's Mom Is Tall

A Canadian Nickname Press picture book about a child with two mothers.

Family diversity

Who's in a Family?

A Tricycle Press many-family picture book that places same-sex parents inside a wider early-childhood family taxonomy.

Two fathers

My Family, Your Family, Our Family

A community coloring book representing lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender parent families.

Canadian picture books

The Not-So-Only Child

A Canadian picture book in which an only child describes a large extended family that includes same-sex grandparents and same-sex-parent households.

Nearby dates

Spanish edition, 2006

Aitor tiene dos mamas

A Spanish edition of a Basque two-mother family story about school bullying, language, and public recognition.

Published 2006

At My House What Makes a Family is Love

An AuthorHouse picture book presenting many kinds of families, including two-mother and two-father households.

Published 2006

Buster's Sugartime

A Postcards from Buster book tie-in connected to a public broadcasting dispute over two-mother family representation.

2006

Emma and the Magic Moose

A fantasy picture book about a girl, a magic journey, and a return to her two mothers.

Citation

Monicka's Papa Is Tall. Heather Jopling; illustrated by Allyson Demoe. Nickname Press, 2006. Tarpey-Schwed LGBT Families Children's Book Special Collection, Mechanics' Institute. Collection ID: KB-047.

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Sources

Cover image from Nickname Press.

  1. Local collection catalog record for Monicka's Papa is Tall · catalog
  2. Open Library ISBN record for Ryan's Mom Is Tall · library
  3. Open Library ISBN record for Monicka's Papa Is Tall · library
  4. Nickname Press about page · publisher
  5. Nickname Press book list · publisher
  6. Nickname Press educators page · publisher
  7. CM review copy hosted by Nickname Press · review
  8. Mombian review of Ryan's Mom Is Tall and related Nickname Press books · review
  9. ALA Rainbow Project Book List · ala
  10. Nickname Press media page · publisher
  11. Children's Books with LGBT Parents bibliography · bibliography
  12. NJLA handout on LGBTQ picture books · bibliography
  13. Second Story Press record for Mom and Mum Are Getting Married · publisher
  14. Open Library record for Heather Has Two Mommies · library